Breaking the Invisible Walls Within
- Selvin Hicks III
- 7 days ago
- 3 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
Many people move through life carrying invisible limitations that were never meant to define them. These limits do not always come from a lack of talent or potential. More often they come from environments that never nurtured their true identity. They come from moments of fear, shame, early failures, or the weight of expectations that were handed to them before they were mature enough to challenge them. These limits settle in quietly until a person begins to believe that this is simply who they are. But the truth is that most limitations are inherited, absorbed, or learned, not chosen.
My own life reflects this reality. I grew up with a strong sense of worth inside, yet I was surrounded by situations that kept trying to shrink that worth. I was a lone wolf in many ways, shaped by the strength and boldness of my grandmother, a woman who raised her family with the courage of someone who had already survived too much. She poured belief into me even when the world called me a failure, even when I stayed back in school. She reminded me that who I was becoming mattered more than any label they tried to give me. But even with that foundation, life still handed me limitations that felt real enough to accept.
I carried the weight of mistakes, the fear of getting in trouble, and the exhaustion of always trying to outrun consequences. When I was arrested, when probation kept pulling me back, when survival became a cycle instead of a season, those moments started shaping my decisions. I was not living from my identity. I was living from my circumstances. Many people do the same. They start believing that their environment is a prophecy instead of a challenge. They start thinking survival is their assignment when it was only meant to be a chapter.
My limitations were not mental. They were environmental. I was creative, intelligent, and driven, but I had never been placed in the right atmosphere to elevate properly. I was talented but misdirected. Purposeful but unaligned. I knew there was more for me, but I had not yet stepped into the rooms or relationships that matched the man I was becoming.
People live limited lives because they have not yet seen themselves outside of the conditions that shaped them. They have learned how to adapt but never learned how to ascend. They carry trauma like it is identity. They treat survival mechanisms like personality traits. They keep repeating cycles because cycles feel safer than the unknown.
My story proves that limitation is not a life sentence. The moment I began to see my story differently, the moment I connected the spiritual meaning behind my battles, the moment my dreams started revealing my internal war, something shifted. I began to realize that every restriction I faced was exposing a part of me that needed to grow. Each arrest, each setback, each moment of fear and frustration was a mirror showing me not my weakness but my assignment.
People live with limitations when they forget that they can outgrow the environment that created them. I learned that freedom begins the moment you stop accepting the story life handed you and start writing the one you were always meant to live. My life is proof that God can take a man who was misunderstood, misdirected, and almost lost in the system and turn him into a leader, an author, and a voice of transformation for others. Limitations may shape us, but they do not have the authority to define us unless we give them permission.

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